1) Beginner Positions - Click here
2) Confirmed Positions
Δ The Oyster
Description :
To start this sex position, the bottom will lie on his back. Then tuck his legs up against his stomach. The top then takes a kneeling position, spreading the bottom’s legs to place his penis and torso between them and penetrate the bottom.
Tips :
To balance and maintain control while thrusting into his partner, the top should firmly hold the thighs of his partner. If wishing to increase sexual arousal, the top has access to the bottom’s penis and can caress and stimulate it. His other erogenous zones are also available (abs, nipples etc…).
The bottom can also change the sensations and the intensity of intercourse by arching his back either backward or forward.
Upsides :
Position allows for face-to-face interaction and may excite both partners. The oyster position allows deep penetration, which ensures intensity of sex.
Downsides :
May be too deep a penetration for bottom to handle, use caution with sexual activity. The bottom also has little freedom of movement.
Δ The Spoons
Description :
The bottom lies on his side, legs slightly tuck in toward his stomach. The top stands behind his partner, pressing his chest against the bottom’s back. The bottom then curves his body back to allow the top to easily penetrate him from behind.
Tips :
The top should take advantage of this slow paced position to learn control his ejaculation. Be sure not to forget that the neck is a very sensitive area in general for most males. While the top caresses his partner, he may also brush the bottom’s neck to further stimulate his partner.
The top has access to the bottom’s penis and may increase pleasure, if he desires. Likewise, if the bottom wishes to increase the top’s desire, he can guide the other’s hands towards his most sensitive area.
To increase the pleasure between the two partners, the bottom should offer the nape of his neck by leaning it to the side and caressing the top’s buttock while he does so.
If the top is too busy, the bottom may also touch his own penis to heighten excitement and pleasure.
Upsides :
This particular position allows for a large amount of body contact. It’s very affectionate and sensual, which is ideal for sex without much movement in the bed. This pose is also great for relaxing or for large (fat) people.
Downsides :
The movements allowed are slow and can lengthen the time it takes to reach climax. It is also possible that pleasure may diminish. The back position may hinder sexual play.
Δ The Anvil
Description :
The bottom begins by lying on his back, then continuing by shifting his knees as far to his shoulders as possible without strain or injury.
The top will move onto his knees to allow the bottom to rest his feet on the top’s shoulders.
Next, the top will shift his upper body forward so that it touches the bottom’s thighs. The top may then penetrate his partner by using the bottom’s feet and buttock for support.
Tips :
The top should arouse his partner first by stimulating the bottom’s penis and balls with his hands to increase pleasure.
This position should not be done without lubrication to the asshole and stretched to a certain elasticity. Therefore, indulge in foreplay and attempt other positions before continuing onto the anvil position.
Upsides :
This posture allows for strong and deep penetration, which heightens the sensation for both partners. Intense face-to-face interaction and posture meant to be extremely sensual.
Downsides :
This position requires a certain level of flexibility. The bottom will have little to no freedom of movement.
Δ The Octopus
Description :
The bottom should lie down on his back with his legs spread out. Then, the top should kneel between the bottom’s spread legs and the top should lift up the bottom’s lower body to rest the buttocks against his midsection.
The bottom’s hips and buttocks should be leaning against the top’s thighs. Penetration should be commenced.
Tips :
Depending on how the top is lifting his partner’s hips and how the bottom arches his back, the angle and depth of penetration will vary. In most cases, it should increase mutual satisfaction.
To further that pleasure, the top should combine thrusting into the anus and caressing his partner’s penis with one of his hands (usually placed somewhat lower than the underarm).
The bottom can surprise his partner by stroking the top’s thighs, elbow, and other erogenous zones within his reach.
Upsides :
This position allows for vast amounts of body contact, intense face-to-face interaction, and extreme sensations. This posture is very comfortable and not completely movement restrictive.
Downsides :
The bottom should be careful not to arch his back too far or he could hurt himself. Both partners have little freedom of movement in this position.
Δ The Wolf
Description :
This position is fairly simple. First, the bottom bends over so that his bottom is up in the air and his hands are touching the ground (or bed, depending on the surroundings). The top takes his place behind his lover and then proceeds to thrust his hips forward to penetrate.
Tips :
The top can wrap his arm around the bottom’s waist, proceeding to then lean over to press his torso against the bottom’s back to increase the contact between them. The top may also take the chance of this position to stimulate his partner’s penis and balls with his hands, this will increase the bottom’s pleasure.
Depending on the flexibility and choice of the bottom to lean (further or less), he can modify the angle of penetration and rubbing to create more sensual sensations.
To bring ease and prolong the position, the bottom can rest on something for support (stated above “bed, cupboard, desk, vertical support, wall, column, stool, coffee table, etc”).
Upsides :
For this position, both lovers will not see each other (unless they wish to make the position uncomfortable), which is both good and bad. Due to the lack of eye contact and loss of intimacy, it takes away that certain attraction; however, both the bottom and top will be excited and the possibility of fantasies added on for either foreplay or sexual sensations.
This position allows for vigorous and deep penetration to heighten the sensations. This pose is also ideal for large (fat) people.
Downsides :
Penetration may be too deep/vigorous for bottom with a possibility for pain. To perform this position properly, both partners should of the same height or about so.
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